"Lies that people rely on are called 'fraud' in legalese. That is a very bad word, and in your lawyer's letter it will tend to generate a return reference letter. Upon its receipt, call and ask for another unfolded one so you can frame it.

"Now, let's assume your ex is really headquartered in Lalaland, and dares to give you a bad rap. Your lawyer will need to drop the law of 'defamation' or 'defamation of character' on him or her.

"There are two types: 'libel' (written) or 'slander' (oral). Since employment is considered so important, false statements of fact are presumed to be malicious. This invokes unlimited punitive damages (to punish) and exemplary damages (to make an example) of your ex. Ergo the phrase 'libel per se' or 'slander per se.' For you they will mean 'Do what I say!' Upon hearing this command, employers are very obedient.

"Do I sound unkind here? I hope so. I'm very visceral about this subject, since it can destroy, not employ. In fact, there should be a law against reference-checking. Unless you know how to supercharge your career using this subjective, totally controllable, powerful device.

"Finally, the omission of that short three-month nightmare from your resume and applications is a judgment call you have to make. I'm not aware of any case where this has been deemed a 'material misrepresentation' unless the candidate was fired for a violation of company policy or worse.

"That should have you off the street and into the seat ASAP. Best wishes for every success!"

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